Carolyn Hax: Spouse feels left out of mother-in-law’s dying wishes
Dying mother-in-law is allowing only certain visitors, and this letter writer fears it will strain their blended family.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Take money from husband’s rich family to join huge, luxury reunion?
A letter writer balks at accepting money to attend husband’s large family reunion, but he sees it as a once-in-a-lifetime chance.
By Carolyn HaxMy wife wants more affection than I can give. Hax readers give advice.
He feels like he’s “failing as a husband” because he can’t be as affectionate as his wife wants him to be.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiCarolyn Hax: She wants to encourage son’s girlfriend to continue her pregnancy
She just learned her son’s girlfriend is pregnant, and this would-be-grandma wants to encourage her to have the baby.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Elderly neighbor shows up in distress on their doorstep
After strange doings next door, an elderly neighbor vanishes — then reappears angry and confused on their doorstep.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Husband’s inability to stand up to parents isn’t okay anymore
A letter writer struggles to cope with a growing dislike of the in-laws and the husband catering to their whims.
By Carolyn HaxThe Best of Carolyn Hax
The best Carolyn Hax columns about estrangement
A roundup of the best Carolyn Hax advice about estrangement.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiThe best Carolyn Hax columns about becoming an adult
We’ve rounded up the best Carolyn Hax columns about becoming an adult.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiThe best Carolyn Hax columns about going on vacation
The best Carolyn Hax columns about going on vacation.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiThe best Carolyn Hax columns about in-laws
A roundup of the best Carolyn Hax columns about in-laws from over the years.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiThe best Carolyn Hax wedding columns
Getting through being a bridesmaid with a broken heart, being invited to your ex's wedding, fielding parents' emotions about planning, and other wedding problems.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiCarolyn Hax: New job took care of the burnout. So why doesn’t it feel better?
A letter writer with a demanding career downshifted to a “just fine” job with less stress but now envies more successful peers.
By Carolyn HaxHusband’s lax handwashing triggers my OCD. Give advice to this Hax question.
Every week, we ask readers to think like an advice columnist and submit their advice to a question Carolyn Hax hasn’t answered.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiCarolyn Hax: Widow doesn’t want husband’s estranged sister at memorial service
The sister reappeared after his death — and brought blame, hostility and manipulation.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Colleague stumbles into the middle of a family secret
A letter writer connects the dots about knowing two members of a family independently — and that one is lying to the other.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: A cheater’s new fiancée wants to hear his ex’s side of the story
Cheating ex asked letter writer not to tell his new fiancée about his infidelity — but the fiancée keeps texting.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: He wants his fiancée to ‘go along’ with his family’s gender roles
He wants his fiancée to stick to gender roles just around his family, not in their own home, but she resents it.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Obvious reason for breakup doesn’t seem so in anxious retrospect
His girlfriend ended things when he seemed smitten with another woman, but now she’s not so sure.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax chat: Husband’s daughter doesn’t like me and is skipping the holidays
Advice columnist Carolyn Hax answers your questions about the strange train we call life.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Boyfriend is the guest at the party who won’t take a hint and leave
Boyfriend overstays his welcome at social events so persistently and often that friends joke about it behind his back.
By Carolyn HaxMy wife wants more affection than I can give. Give advice to this Hax question.
Every week, we ask readers to think like an advice columnist and submit their advice to a question Carolyn Hax hasn’t answered.
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiCarolyn Hax: Boyfriend gives gifts that he would like for himself
Boyfriend chooses gifts centered on his own hobbies, and the letter writer wants to know whether to question him on this.
By Carolyn HaxFamily shuns my interracial marriage. Do I tell our kid? Hax readers give advice.
Is there an age-appropriate way to explain to a 5-year-old that his grandparents disowned his parent because they’re racist?
By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiCarolyn Hax: He’s a great boyfriend, the one night a week he’s free
He gives his time to good causes, so she feels selfish for wanting to break up over spending so little time with her.
By Carolyn HaxCarolyn Hax: Do they apologize for mocking in-law’s ‘weird’ Thanksgiving meal?
Their son is cooking Thanksgiving this year. Is that because, when his wife made a gourmet version, they mocked it as “weird”?
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